Have you ever asked the following? “What is the point of marriage?” HUH?
Having interviewed hundreds if not thousands of job applicants over the years, if you enjoy the process, and end up sitting with your manager(s) throughout interviews, there’s a high probability you like people all the while garnering an aptitude for behavioural psychology!
Mind you, I’m not one to boast with regards to this topic. If it’s of any consolation; I’ve fared dreadfully insofar as my own relationships, with a staggering tally of 1.5 ex-wives, (The .5 is a prediction (perhaps written in jest) that one of the two will not be left fully intact in this lifetime).
A few weeks back, I casually asked a friend and colleague why he was getting married just to receive a perplexed look and what seemed like a frantic effort of desperation to come up with an answer. Curiosity is the main factor. I love trying to decipher why humans think the way they do, and as everyone is unique, the world through my eyes is one big social experiment. Harness some acting/roleplaying skills on the other hand and the fun’s quadrupled.
Some say, “well that’s what my parents did” or something completely vague or even moronic such as “that’s what everyone does”.
There were a few occasions when GOD came up; “well, because you know, GOD!”. Once the ‘G’ word is mentioned, the conversation is over. Before your mind begins to churn out the judgements, let the following quell your internal storm: I’ve been toying with the idea of a third marriage for a while. It feels good! I’m not preaching from a moral high ground. I’m not a preacher. I’m mentioning this to put things into perspective. Provocation is not a concern. If this article has a contrasting viewpoint to your own, you’ve made my day and I’d kindly ask you to post your comments below.
Adultery (what an archaic word) /cheating will go on and on and on and on. Many women as well as men will remain “hurt”, “betrayed” and dumped like a damp rag till human life ceases. When we can’t see the true purpose of our actions; have no fundamental understanding of our biological makeup (Men & women are not equal here) we will go on repeating the same. A very good friend of mine recently reminded me about the definition of insanity and Einstein’s broadly credited exclamation: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results”. (although I personally believe Einstein was too smart to define the broad scope of insanity in such narrow terms) My take would be, if you do the same things over and over expecting different results, you often wind up being the best entrepreneur, athlete, musician and master of your profession/hobby…Let’s get back to marriage shall we?
I’ve compiled a grand total of 2 short videos which could be all you’ll ever need. Couples, I suggest watching with your spouse/partner/girlfriend/mistress/boy-toy.
A fundamental understanding of human nature may help put an end to the insane human torture we ceaselessly put ourselves through. Perhaps you’ve read some older articles on this site to appreciate the disdain I have for organized religions. Put all emotions aside and open your hearts and minds. To the unwise old-timers, you’ve wasted 2 minutes of your life reading till here. You may ignore all that has been written, skip the videos and continue living your bondage dream-fantasy.
Alternate perspective. Why not an Indian man for a change? Your psychoanalysts and counsellors have already had a feast with your wallet. Pick the girl of your dreams. The beauty will look mediocre to you in +/- 1 year. You may be fat and ugly and married to the world’s sexiest supermodel. From a 10 you’ll see her as a 6 (superficially speaking in terms of attraction) and will definitely want to sleep with someone else. Obviously your friends will think you’re insane. Human nature’s insane?
Ask yourself, what is our purpose here? What is the driving force behind every action? No need to delve into meaningless meaning of life philosophies for life itself is the meaning. 😀
A MAN SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN, AND BOTH ARE NOT LOVING EACH OTHER, BUT THEY’RE STILL TRYING TO MAKE LOVE BECAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED. THIS IS UGLY…DISGUSTING.
THAT’S REAL PROSTITUTION
Please note: I do not endorse nor condone any of either 2 videos.